We’ve been finalizing our wedding plans and that means lots of trips to flower people, cake people, caterers, and bands. [singlepic id=221 w=320 h=240 float=right]We decided we wanted to do something different and cool so we’re having a live Brazilian band at the wedding. Neither of us is Brazilian, obviously, and it’s not like we know anything about Brazilian music, but it’s cool, and different, and so we’re meeting with Brazilian bands.
So we went to listen to one band at a club they were playing and we had arranged to meet with them during a break. These guys were great and we wanted to hire them to play the wedding. So we negotiated the fee and everything seemed perfect, and then I remembered we wanted them to play a non-Brazilian song for the first dance. It’s kind of an inside thing, but Michelle and I really like this song called, “Song Beneath the Song.”
So I said, “Oh, I forgot, can you just play one song that’s not Brazilian?” I explained the story and told them the song.
And the bandleader, who’s this Brazilian woman, says, “No.”
I’m like, “Seriously?”
She said, “We only play Brazilian music.”
And I said, “I know. I get that. I’m just saying the one song for the first dance.”
And she looks at me and says, “No. You want a band to play that shit from Grey’s Anatomy you can hire a whiny American band.”
I couldn’t believe it. So I turned to Michelle and said, “We should talk about this.”
I told the bandleader we’d get back to her.
Am I crazy here? Is it really a major faux pas to ask a Brazilian band to play one song not from Brazil?